MY STORY
I am a woman who is passionate about supporting, empowering and guiding women to live their most authentic and fulfilling lives... I am a woman who is owning and using her knowledge, gifts and experiences to live her life's purpose... I am a woman who is following her dreams and not letting limiting beliefs, fear of scarcity or perceived circumstances hold me back from who I know I am, in my heart of hearts - that is that I am capable and worthy of doing whatever lights me up... and this work... working with women like you, lights me up!
But I haven't always been this woman. I too have lived small, confined to the box that was created for and suggested to me. I was completely disembodied and disconnected from myself. I had soooooooo many limiting beliefs and internal resistances holding me back. I was living the life I was told by so many to live. Be the good girl; don't be sensitive; suck it up; get the education; have the well paying stable job; wear the uniform; marry the man; have the kids; buy the house and... be happy. I did ALL these things and while they all lead me to here, they weren't all in my best, most authentic and truest interest. Which, of course led me to feel guilt and shame around having all the things and still not being 'happy'. Enter the pain/shame cycle.
But I haven't always been this woman. I too have lived small, confined to the box that was created for and suggested to me. I was completely disembodied and disconnected from myself. I had soooooooo many limiting beliefs and internal resistances holding me back. I was living the life I was told by so many to live. Be the good girl; don't be sensitive; suck it up; get the education; have the well paying stable job; wear the uniform; marry the man; have the kids; buy the house and... be happy. I did ALL these things and while they all lead me to here, they weren't all in my best, most authentic and truest interest. Which, of course led me to feel guilt and shame around having all the things and still not being 'happy'. Enter the pain/shame cycle.
The first moment I realised that the life I created (by default) was no longer the right on for me, was when I had my first child. They have this amazing way of dredging up old unhealed wounds and illuminating deep misalignment and the yearning for more authenticity. Soooooo, with what was originally labelled as PND, I started my journey into uncovering and rediscovering ME!!!! Creating a new life (by design).
A journey where no amount of text books could prepare me for the lessons learnt. A journey where I found me.... A journey of informal learning, that I now use along with formal education to teach, guide and empower other women out of their version of struggle and misalignment.
I am now challenging the expectations of both society and my old paradigms; I allow myself to feel and be sensitive; I no longer 'suck it up' and I get uncomfortable with my internal feelings; I am learning and educating myself in different and non-traditional ways; I left the stable, well-paying job to pursue my dreams and purpose; I ditched the uniform and the mask; I am gratefully still with the man I married navigating a different version of our life; I have a deeper level of love and compassion for my kids (and me as a mother); we love our house and know that there will always be a desire for more while being grateful for what we have...... I am getting closer and closer to the authentic me.
So, as you flick through this website determining whether I am the right guide for you.... just know that I have had my version of where you are now and that I am the right kind of qualified to help you navigate whatever brought you here today. I've totally got you! Are you ready take that first step?
A journey where no amount of text books could prepare me for the lessons learnt. A journey where I found me.... A journey of informal learning, that I now use along with formal education to teach, guide and empower other women out of their version of struggle and misalignment.
I am now challenging the expectations of both society and my old paradigms; I allow myself to feel and be sensitive; I no longer 'suck it up' and I get uncomfortable with my internal feelings; I am learning and educating myself in different and non-traditional ways; I left the stable, well-paying job to pursue my dreams and purpose; I ditched the uniform and the mask; I am gratefully still with the man I married navigating a different version of our life; I have a deeper level of love and compassion for my kids (and me as a mother); we love our house and know that there will always be a desire for more while being grateful for what we have...... I am getting closer and closer to the authentic me.
So, as you flick through this website determining whether I am the right guide for you.... just know that I have had my version of where you are now and that I am the right kind of qualified to help you navigate whatever brought you here today. I've totally got you! Are you ready take that first step?